Sunday, October 14, 2012

u mad gma?


October 9 at 8:55pm · 
  • the intro is a little loud... be responsible and watch this... 6 minutes of romney lies.. err flip flops. remember you cant spell "believe" without the "lie" in the middle.
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    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      BARACK (INSANE ) OBAMA...... A LEGEND IN HIS OWN MIND.....
    • Leila Benoit You must have misunderstood. This is a video about Romney, not Obama. grin lol
    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      OH I KNEW THAT BUT JUST WANTED THE IDIOTS WHO ARE VOTING FOR OBAMA TO READ IT ALSO (LOL)\
    • Jeremy R. Cort this "man" is a liar grandma. tell me he's not. one of the only things he has been consistent on is his hatred of gay people. he flip flops on so many important things. did you watch the video at all? 

      here are some of his flip flops: http://mittromneysflipflops.com/
      mittromneysflipflops.com
      See Mitt Romneys Flip Flops all in one place. Mitt Romney's record - take your pick, which Mitt?
    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      FacebookAND DID YOU WATCH THE DEBATE????? OBAMA DIDN'T DENY ANY OF THE THINGS THAT WAS SAID ABOUT HIM... HE IS A LIAR AND A CHEAT, A MUSLIM THAT HATES AMERICA, THAT BOWS DOWN TO OTHER COUNTRYS AND WANTS TO TAKE OUR GOD OUT OF OUR SCHOOLS, CHURCHES, EVEN ON OUR MONEY AND EVERYTHING THAT WE STAND FOR WHILE HE GOES AND WHORSHIPS HIS OWN GOD AND LOOKS DOWN HIS NOSE AT US. HE HAS PUT THIS COUNTRY IN THE WORST STATE IT'S EVER BEEN IN AND IF HE GETS RE-ELECTED THAT WILL BE THE END OF AMERICA.ALL WE WILL HAVE LEFT IS LOW LIFES AND IMMIGRANTS.... BEING IN THE SERVICE JEREMY AND PUTTING YOUR LIFE ON THE LINE FOR YOUR COUNTRY, I CANT BELIEVE YOU FEEL ANYTHING BUT DISGUST FOR THIS LIAR....I ONLY HOPE WHEN YOU VOTE YOU WILL DO THE RIGHT THING BEHIND THE CLOSED CURTAINS.....
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    • Leila Benoit It disturbs me that people don't seem to care about the truth this time around. You are repeating many things that have been debunked already, and seem to have no desire to get to the truth of any of it. You subscribe to the viewpoint that "anyone is better than Obama," and why? Because you think he is a Muslim? All I see in responses like these is xenophobia. ... You are tossing out a man who has respect for my beliefs AND yours, to replace him with a man who only has respect for yours. How do you think that makes me feel? Your beliefs and rights will be protected by either president; my beliefs and rights will only be protected by Obama. It's very disconcerting for me to think that a man who hates everything I am will be made the ruler of our nation, and why? Just because folks who also hate what I am want to be able to control me and keep me lesser than them, to reserve their special status over me. It's all very frightening to me. I can't wait until the election is over, one way or another. And to folks who are voting for Romney, all I have to say is be careful what you wish for. People like me won't be the only ones to suffer for it.
    • Jeremy R. Cort a lot - if not all, of what you are saying about obama here is simply untrue. it is not your fault that you have been maliciously informed or malinformed. 

      as for god, religion has NO place in politics OR education except as a footnote.

      in the bible 
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    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      There is still time to realize the truth my dear................
    • Leila Benoit That's what I keep trying to say. lol
    • Jeremy R. Cort the truth of what?
    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      So sorry, I guess I should have explained myself a little clearer....By (time to realize the truth) I mean time to see the mistake you are makiing if you vote Obama in again or even want to see him voted in...I can't believe you don't understand or s...See More
    • Leila Benoit Well it's a good thing we're all entitled to our own opinions, and that we can't force our opinions on others. Oh wait - that's exactly what the Republic Party is trying to do to people like me; they're trying to force their opinions on me. lol... Oh, ...See More
    • Jeremy R. Cort what started as an intellectual exchange has turned into a series of attacks. i gave you references from the bible and sourced non partisan reports about romney and you continue to be retaliatory and now you have resorted to belittling and name calling. you have provided absolutely NO substantial evidence for any of your specious claims and i am... done. i'm not agreeing to disagree i am stopping this before you say more things you mean. 

      as to your comment to leila. it is telling that you chose now to state "You know to tell you the truth Leila, I really don't care what you think..." since in your eyes she is "less than" now. 

      i love you grandma, i truly do. however i can not support bad behavior from anyone. in my adult life i have always fallen on the side of the greater good. i have stood for human rights and the equal representation of americans everywhere.

      at the end of the day we as americans are FREE to say and do what we wish so long as those endeavors do not infringe on the rights of others.
    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      Enough said Jeremy, it's to late/
    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      And Leila, not trying to be sarcastic or disrespectful but are you an Atheist??? Some of your remarks make me ask....Just wondering.............
    • Jeremy R. Cort leila and i are both atheists. we have been for a few years now.
    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      then shame on you. you have fallen away from everything you was taught when you were at home .....
    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      and if she is why ask all the questions about the bible.
    • Jeremy R. Cort i have no shame in my choice. i am "good without god" - leila was asking rhetorical questions about the bible. she knows it well. she was raised in the church as well.
    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      If you were both raised in church then why would she change just because she is upset with her parents???Is that why she hates Romney??? because he is a Morman like her folks???Wow Jeremy, I had no idea you were an atheist... You were a good Christian man until when???? Until you met her??????
    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      AND AS YOU KNOW THE DEVIL KNOWS THE BIBLE WELL TOO..........WORD FOR WORD............
    • Leila Benoit Uh.... okay. Let's see. Yes, I am an atheist, but I am still curious about the beliefs of others. I am particularly curious about the things I mentioned above because I am unfamiliar with the whole mindset, as Jehovah's Witnesses did not involve themselves in politics or political speculation. So I am honestly curious and am interested in honest answers. Also, none of my viewpoints on anything are a result of being "upset" with my parents. I dearly love my parents and don't hold them responsible for raising me in a cult; they were taken in, too. I am not some rebellious teenager looking to make a statement. I have come to my positions through much thought over many years. Also, I never even talked much about religion to Jeremy. His journey is his to make, not mine to hijack. He came to his position totally on his own, in fact I was surprised when he told me he was an atheist. Let's see what else... I would resent your implication that I am the devil or from the devil or whatever but... lol... Wow. Oh, and I don't "hate Romney." I disagree strongly with the man on issues of civil rights, which are important to me because they affect my personal safety and the safety of others. I respect the right of others to vote for him. The reason I have been commenting on peoples' Romney v. Obama posts is because much of it is easily disproved and I would ask people to be responsible human beings and source their material and make an effort to post things that are actually true. When we post things to Facebook we should be prepared to defend our positions. We should also make an effort not to spread lies and misinformation and conspiracy theories. So - to summarize: I don't hate Romney. I disagree with him politically, and while respecting your right to vote for him, I would wish that you would post things that are responsible and true in support of him, and not things that are false. My only argument with supporters (of ANYONE) is that they should be factual and stop posting untrue things.
    • Jeremy R. Cort leila was not the vehicle for my separation from the teachings of the church.

      being atheist is some thing we have in common not something we arrived at because of some difficulty in our lives. 

      leila is not upset with her parents she is heartbroken 
      that they are still in a cult (jehovas witnesses not morman, although mormanism is a cult too). they even moved next door to a kingdom hall. 

      leila and i both feel that romney is on the wrong side of civil liberties and human rights. this time around the republican platform has vowed to IMPOSE religious tenants on the public en mass. our country was founded with freedom OF and FROM religion in mind. the separation of church and state MUST be absolute.

      as to me being a good christian, grandma... i used to be on fire for god. i was wholly dedicated. as i grew in age and knowledge i could no longer defend the doctrine i once held so dear. there was just no science to support the information i was taught in church.

      lastly to the whole devil comment, i know those passages well. i heard them often growing up. it is also said that the devil never misses a service. leila is not the devil (nor do i appreciate the inference). or the even in the smallest of ways a catalyst for my changes. 

      if you would like to talk more here on facebook or we could go to coffee on sunday when we come to town. i would welcome the engaging discussion.
    • Steven Topich I hope you don't mind if I hijack the thread to talk about the video you posted. After watching I noticed that some of the clips in the video with his differing views are seperated by years and it is only natural that some people views change as they get older. 

      I am sure if someone wanted to make a video of the same thing with Barack, that is if there isn't one already done, they most likely could. 

      I cannot fault a person whose views change. I am not by any stretch of the imagination a supporter of Romney, in fact if I vote it will most likely be for the current president. Even though I may not agree with all he has done in the past few years, he has still done more than his detractors give him credit for.
    • Jeremy R. Cort welcome! hijack away! (invite friends too ) 

      yeah i know some of these are seperated by time. i have a few more on my page too. folks are indeed entitled to change their mind, my main issue is that romneys mind is for sale. when he uses infinitive la
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    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      Yes Jeremy, folks are entitled to change their mind but its sad when its a as important as this, and right now I'm not talking about Romeny or obama. And I'm am not going to write you a LETTER of dos and don'ts and why and why nots as I think now it will do no good... And it certainly was not my intention to air our dirty laundry on facebook but I do not have your e-mail address to write to you directly anymore.......We all have to make choices in life and hope like heck it's the right one...... I did not care for the journals you both wrote and most all of it was a bunch of hogwash which neither of you talk like in person or I hope believe in.It certainly must have taken you folks some time to come up with such letters..Boy, playing (scattergories ) has really helped in the word and mind department .. I must try it sometime.lol ....This note is in no way an apology as we both know thats not going to happen... and just so you know, coffee is difiniatly out at this time. I have no desire to write to you again which should make Leila very happy.....By the way I did not call her the devil and I think that you know me well enough that if I was implying that she was I would have just come out and said so.... Why, is she ????...... Divide and conquer......
    • Anna Marin Yeah name calling and belittling is very immature and shows lack of actual facts on your side.... I know Aunt Dottie can't see this because she has blocked me and I will admit it hurt that she blocked me... BUT I know that I am good without god and I f...See More
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    • Leila Benoit Yeah, I know what it's like to have people turn their backs on you for disavowing their faith. Lots of people did that to me, too, lots of friends and family. It's unfortunate that they couldn't abide having an opposing viewpoint in their life. I get along just fine surrounded by opposing viewpoints. lol
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    • Anna Marin She blocked me because I called her out on what she was saying. It was all about a video she posted, which was completely infactual and she then started calling me little girl, etc... she wouldn't have an argument about the facts. Her faith and beliefs are ALL that guide her and so many others. Fundamentalists christians and muslims don't use their brains or intellect. They don't try to understand the universe.. they thank god for what medicine does for them. They want to force or in cases of the taliban they actually force everyone to live according to THEIR specific beliefs. What they feel and believe is all that matters. Facts be damned and so is everyone that doesn't agree with them or agree to live by their rules. IMO Evangelical christians are exactly like the taliban. I am not only an atheist... I am an ANTItheist. I HATE religion and what it does to humanity. The same Christians who want their faith and beliefs to be respected deny others the same rights. I was hurt that she blocked me... because I have known her my entire life and it was the first time that someone I cared about didn't want to even know me because I am an atheist. I have had family members - cousins block me for the same thing. Oh so "christian" of them. It reminds me of just another way that I am good without god - and those with god - eh... they think they are good. LOL
    • Jeremy R. Cort why did you block anna marin grandma? she had some information to add to our exchange. ill re post it here for the sake of continuity.

      Anna Marin Yeah name calling and belittling is very immature and shows lack of actual facts on your side.... I know
      Aunt Dottie can't see this because she has blocked me and I will admit it hurt that she blocked me... BUT I know that I am good without god and I feel VERY bad for those who don't believe that they can be good people without their god. It's sad really. They are so close to the edge and such bad people that without god stopping them they would murder rape lie steal cheat etc... BUT I know I am strong because I don't have to rely on god's help to be good, and I have to deal with my mistakes, I can't just be forgiven by asking a third party (jesus) to forgive me... I have to go to the person I wrong and ask forgiveness...
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    • Jeremy R. Cort yeah she wrote this too... ( dont worry im getting a response together for you about thestuff you said 12 hours ago.) 

      Anna Marin She blocked me because I called her out on what she was saying. It was all about a video she posted, which was complete
      ly infactual and she then started calling me little girl, etc... she wouldn't have an argument about the facts. Her faith and beliefs are ALL that guide her and so many others. Fundamentalists christians and muslims don't use their brains or intellect. They don't try to understand the universe.. they thank god for what medicine does for them. They want to force or in cases of the taliban they actually force everyone to live according to THEIR specific beliefs. What they feel and believe is all that matters. Facts be damned and so is everyone that doesn't agree with them or agree to live by their rules. IMO Evangelical christians are exactly like the taliban. I am not only an atheist... I am an ANTItheist. I HATE religion and what it does to humanity. The same Christians who want their faith and beliefs to be respected deny others the same rights. I was hurt that she blocked me... because I have known her my entire life and it was the first time that someone I cared about didn't want to even know me because I am an atheist. I have had family members - cousins block me for the same thing. Oh so "christian" of them. It reminds me of just another way that I am good without god - and those with god - eh... they think they are good. LOL
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    • Anna Marin you can repost the other one too... it is really how I feel and even though she blocked me... it's okay. I do understand somewhat. It's hard to have your beliefs challenged and really have no way to defend them. Some of the things they try to defend are seriously hard for them to defend. If life is so important - why is the death penalty okay?? isn't life - life??? it's hard to defend the indefensible really
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    • Leila Benoit Lol... I feel you. It's very frustrating... They seem to get so upset when I simply present a different viewpoint. It's like they think I am persecuting them by voicing my opinion, which is different from theirs. .... They want me to respect their view (which I try to do; though I disagree and even think religion is harmful, I am certainly not out to "convert" anyone), but they don't seem able to respect mine. So many people immediately resort to "otherizing" me, calling names, calling my viewpoint stupid, ignorant, immature, the result of "rebellion" or spite... things I don't do to them. It's disheartening, especially when their own Bible says that we will recognize the true followers of Christ by their fruits; love, peace, lol. I have to say, Anna, it's nice to meet another atheist. We should hang out sometime lol.
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    • Jeremy R. Cort and this:

      Anna Marin you can repost the other one too... it is really how I feel and even though she blocked me... it's okay. I do understand somewhat. It's hard to have your beliefs challenged and really have no way to defend them. Some of the things
       they try to defend are seriously hard for them to defend. If life is so important - why is the death penalty okay?? isn't life - life??? it's hard to defend the indefensible really

      well anna... i agree. it is wholly indefensible...
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    • Jeremy R. Cort @ leila, i agree babe. im not posting stuff here for conversion... im just... ignorance is cute when you are 5. when you become an adult you have to take the reins of your own education and improve the world around you...
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    • Dorothy Phillips · 11 mutual friends
      I do not wish to talk to you , leila, or anna again.... you are all very immature and to be quite frank you bore me. I do hope all 3 of you will will get it together sometime before it;s to late
    • Jeremy R. Cort outstanding grandma... rather than answer anything i have asked with proof you choose to let a debate turn into a reason for you to block, ignore, and insult us. i HAVE it together. and i would invite you to tell me, here in this public forum for all to see, exactly how i / we deserve your disdain because we are not your version of good.
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open letter to all fundies.

facebook stuff for posterity, because if someone takes down a post is it lost forever... names were not changes to placate the guilty lol, ill update all posts with as much as i can before deletion.



Does EVERYTHING have to be an argument on FaceBook????? So sick of this DRAMA, DRAMA, DRAMA......"As for me and my House, We will serve the Lord!" The Bible stands as my guideline, and there ain't nothing you can say or do to change my viewpoint,....Love You All, You live your way I will live mine. When it comes down to offending people in my family, or church family that is where I draw the line. This has gone too far.....I will not be part of it. God Bless and have a good day.
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  • John Cort Is everything OK ?
  • Jeremy R. Cort this is pretty much an open letter it is not directed specifically at you mom so know that im addressing all fundamentalist christians.

    @john: no, things are not ok, and this is not / was not a "fight" its was debate. 

    @mom: are you talking about 
    gramndma dot? it was not an argument till 5 minutes ago. "you people" (fundamentalist christians) post lies and try to pass it off as truth, i call "you" on it and thus far the only one showing any sign that they are willing to at least follow the links to sources provided is aunt kathy (as far as our intimate circle goes). can we agree to disagree? yes! yes we can! however that is not what is happening here. and do not confuse the "tone" of my retorts because it is impossible to convey inflection thorough short facebook messages.

    @everyone when i started posting and responding to stuff on facebook a couple weeks ago it was and still is my aim to provoke critical thinking. im so tired of the emotionally and mentally lazy attitude i see all over the internet. so here it goes. 

    if "people" (fundamentalist christians) keep posting baseless accusations, lies, and what-not while attempting to pass it off as fact, i / we can and will take the time that "they" did not, to look up the info and comment. rather than "people" getting mad that i / we have offered a contrasting viewpoint please... FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!... source your reasons! we all have a responsibility to be fair in these public forums. as irl (in real life) acquaintances, friends and family we do not have the luxury and of anonymity, and that makes it harder for us to speak our minds. i know full well that all of "you" believe leila and i are going to hell... "you" are ENTITLED to your opinion on that. we (all of us everywhere) are ENTITLED to our opinions too. as to offending people. i have the same rights as "you" do to express myself. i'm not sorry that i have offended "people" in by sourcing comments. i told the truth, "they" did not. "they" are tale bearing", gossip mongering, fostering distension, spouting hatred, exclusion and bigotry all stacked on a bible wrapped in a flag. how is that christian? in any stretch of the imagination? this special blend of american fundamentalist xenophobic nationalism is DESTROYING america, and OUR family. i will make SURE that the three little lives i'm responsible for will have an EVEN understanding of this world forged with love and temperance though education not ignorance.

    so sit there and grimace at what we say, make your phone calls and send your messages of outrage because you cant face the fact that bigotry rules your life and how it scares you that have no clue how to get it back...

    some of you know me well enough by know to know what comes next. I will not cow down to a "bully". i will not let others repress our inalienable rights. unlike most of "you" i fought to keep the stripes on our flag red and to preserve ALL OF OUR RIGHTS under the constitution. i didn't sacrifice 6+ years of my life (the sacrifice of my family not withstanding) with exclusions or qualifications. how many of "you" can say the same?. not many... i can't name 5. and none of them that i can name have participated in any of the debates i have put forth. not only that, i have a challenge for all of "you" how many of you would die for what you believe in? and i don't mean in a metaphorical sense. i mean non life. death. 

    >> i will << 

    regardless of what you think of us, leila and i would go out of our way to help ANY of you in need. without exclusion, without pretense, loathing, fear or conditions, without asking for anything in return because it is simply the right thing to do. so sit there and qualify your love for us and others withe all the self serving rhetoric you can. while you love us "even tho" we are different, we love all of you without prejudice or qualification because there is no space in our hearts for hatred. 

    how presumptuous of us to think that in all the ancient cosmos that we are all that is beautiful and perfect. that all this is for us. that out of the last 14 billion years of existence in our 8000 years of understanding, the last 235 years on this stolen turtle in the space our infinitesimal spec of life on this dirt we call america, that we are right about anything... the truth of it all is that we are spinning blindly through space with only the crudest of understanding as to all that is around us. the least we can do is be decent to one another and respect each-others individuality. that much i know. that much i can do.

    in closing, i am not mad at anyone and since we all live less than an hour from each other i would be more than happy to sit down and talk with any of you if you would like to vent, ask questions or just hang out and talk.

    i read something that was thought provoking yesterday, 

    http://books.google.com/books?id=7FNKAQAACAAJ&dq=the+lying+carpet&source=bl&ots=nT-l20r0ey&sig=Pc7kRSY9IULkjveOpnDsHa14Qvw&hl=en&sa=X&ei=dON6UNz1KoP20gHvrIHQAw&ved=0CC0Q6AEwAA

    "A honeybee, fat with nectar, knocked on the window and said: "The truth is bitter and lies are sweet, but the truth is better for you."
    "That is all very well," said a fly, trapped inside, "but on this side of the glass, truth and lies are one"
    books.google.com
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  • Leila Benoit Ok Sandi... Well, I have to assume you're referring in part to the infanticide hoax video I commented on. I guess you took it down? Facebook gives me an error message when I try to get to it. Ok. Here goes. I was not trying to be "argumentative" in anything I said. I understand the confusion because it IS hard to convey inflection via text. I don't really understand how it's offensive when I bring to your attention that something is untrue. I would hate to go on believing something that has already been debunked, and if I found out my friends knew and didn't tell me I'd be a little miffed. Lol. Again; we have not been trying to argue with anyone or "convert" anyone to our side. I don't think asking for people to be honest and source their material so that we can get to the crux of the matter, is offensive or "argumentative." Out of respect for you, we have taken care to source all our material before we post it. But it's offensive and argumentative for us to ask you to do the same, to be sure you're posting things that are real, instead of slander, rumor and untruth? I just do not understand. I'm sorry you took it that way. I would never have thought to classify critical thinking as "drama." I also thought that if someone posted something to Facebook, it was an invitation to talk about it. I didn't realize that sometimes people only want to have their views validated and are not looking for conversation. Anyway. Be assured that we weren't trying to fight or "argue." We were just trying to ask people to fact check what they were posting, and to post things that build up rather than tear down. Now that I see that is not welcome, I won't bother anymore. But if you come to my Facebook page, which all are welcome to do, be prepared to think critically and present a defense for what you say.